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Conflict Zen CommonsConflict Zen Commons

A free online community for people who want better ways to resolve conflict in personal and professional life.

Making Mediation Your Day JobMaking Mediation Your Day Job

Tammy’s award-winning book for new and seasoned mediators who want to make conflict resolution their day job.


Keeping Your Cool in ConflictKeeping Your Cool in Conflict

Learn how to keep your cool during conflict and stay calm and collected when confronting or negotiating.

Making Mediation Your Day Job ManualThe Manual

After you’ve read the book, learn how to take it to the next level with Tammy’s detailed mediation business manual.


calm downCalm Down: How to De-Escalate Emotionally Charged Conflict

Tammy shares the secrets skilled mediators know for calming high-voltage situations.

What the Fly HeardWhat the Fly Heard: What Mediators Say Behind Closed Doors

Learn mediator language with this concise book of examples from veteran mediator Sandi Adams.


good conflict resolution booksFavorite Conflict Resolution Books

Compiled from the books Tammy uses most frequently, cherishes most, and uses in her own conflict resolution training and teaching.

Pre-Mediation as Negotiation PrepBeyond Information Gathering: Pre-Mediation as Negotiation Prep

How to make the most of pre-mediation, also known as client intake.


When Someone Is Dying by Alice EsteyWhen Someone Is Dying: What Should I Say? How Can I Help?

This free pamphlet by Alice Estey helps you talk with a dying person with greater ease and comfort.

Conflict coaching whitepaperThe Case for Conflict Coaching: A Briefing

Figure out the return on investment in conflict coaching for yourself or your organization with this free PDF.


Mediation Business SummitMediation Business Summit Audio

The 2010 Mediation Business Summit featured top business speakers from around the world. This is the full audio collection of the proceedings.

Tammy's ToolboxTammy’s Toolbox

Fellow conflict resolution professionals frequently ask Tammy what tech tools she uses to run her business. These are some of Tammy’s favorites.