Comments for Tammy Lenski Conflict Resolution http://lenski.com How to resolve conflict, repair a relationship, and find peace of mind Thu, 24 May 2012 15:15:51 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 Comment on What are your conflict triggers? by Tammy Lenski http://lenski.com/blog/what-are-your-conflict-triggers/#comment-4667 Tammy Lenski Thu, 24 May 2012 15:15:51 +0000 http://lenski.com/what-are-your-conflict-triggers/#comment-4667 Thanks, Angela! Thanks, Angela!

]]> Comment on What are your conflict triggers? by AC http://lenski.com/blog/what-are-your-conflict-triggers/#comment-4664 AC Thu, 24 May 2012 14:18:30 +0000 http://lenski.com/what-are-your-conflict-triggers/#comment-4664 Excellent article. Very thoughtful and informative. Excellent article. Very thoughtful and informative.

]]> Comment on Fighting in a relationship: The gift of anger between friends by Letting go of anger during conflict: Questions to ask yourself http://lenski.com/blog/the-gift-of-anger-between-friends/#comment-4663 Letting go of anger during conflict: Questions to ask yourself Thu, 24 May 2012 14:14:01 +0000 http://conflictzen.com/?p=1274#comment-4663 [...] perhaps letting go of anger during conflict isn’t the right goal. To allow the gift of anger to help us unravel the conflict at its true source, we need to handle our anger so that [...] [...] perhaps letting go of anger during conflict isn’t the right goal. To allow the gift of anger to help us unravel the conflict at its true source, we need to handle our anger so that [...]

]]> Comment on A better way to fix problems at work by Tammy Lenski http://lenski.com/blog/a-better-way-to-fix-problems-at-work/#comment-4504 Tammy Lenski Thu, 17 May 2012 11:08:04 +0000 http://lenski.com/?p=6913#comment-4504 Yes, I do. It may feel gratifying to be a problem solver like that but ultimately, I think it's the path to burnout and demotivating to staff. Yes, I do. It may feel gratifying to be a problem solver like that but ultimately, I think it’s the path to burnout and demotivating to staff.

]]> Comment on A better way to fix problems at work by Pepi Noble http://lenski.com/blog/a-better-way-to-fix-problems-at-work/#comment-4503 Pepi Noble Thu, 17 May 2012 11:02:04 +0000 http://lenski.com/?p=6913#comment-4503 Your description of your discussion with the student was so real I could actually visualize the problem creeping towards you. But right on, helping people fix their problems is by not owning it yourself. Do you think that some managers or leaders believe their role is to take care of everything themselves? I see a lot of that; particularly in new supervisors Your description of your discussion with the student was so real I could actually visualize the problem creeping towards you. But right on, helping people fix their problems is by not owning it yourself. Do you think that some managers or leaders believe their role is to take care of everything themselves? I see a lot of that; particularly in new supervisors

]]> Comment on The agile conflict resolver: Going beyond the toolbox by Tammy Lenski http://lenski.com/blog/the-agile-conflict-resolver-going-beyond-the-toolbox/#comment-4502 Tammy Lenski Thu, 17 May 2012 10:12:50 +0000 http://lenski.com/?p=6884#comment-4502 Ivy, in instances like those I hear one of my original teacher saying, "Get out of your head!" Ivy, in instances like those I hear one of my original teacher saying, “Get out of your head!”

]]> Comment on The agile conflict resolver: Going beyond the toolbox by Ivy Roberts http://lenski.com/blog/the-agile-conflict-resolver-going-beyond-the-toolbox/#comment-4501 Ivy Roberts Wed, 16 May 2012 22:23:08 +0000 http://lenski.com/?p=6884#comment-4501 That's very true. Sometimes as a mediator I find myself overthinking the mediation when I really just need to empty my head and connect with my clients. That’s very true. Sometimes as a mediator I find myself overthinking the mediation when I really just need to empty my head and connect with my clients.

]]> Comment on The agile conflict resolver: Going beyond the toolbox by Tammy Lenski http://lenski.com/blog/the-agile-conflict-resolver-going-beyond-the-toolbox/#comment-4500 Tammy Lenski Tue, 15 May 2012 12:57:23 +0000 http://lenski.com/?p=6884#comment-4500 So true, Diane! I was just talking about dog agility with my Rotary club earlier this morning and mentioned you and the way you encourage us to stretch and center ourselves before running the dogs. Lots of lessons in dog agility for we humans! So true, Diane! I was just talking about dog agility with my Rotary club earlier this morning and mentioned you and the way you encourage us to stretch and center ourselves before running the dogs. Lots of lessons in dog agility for we humans!

]]> Comment on Getting interpersonal conflict unstuck at ACR by alan halford http://lenski.com/blog/getting-interpersonal-conflict-unstuck-at-acr/#comment-4499 alan halford Tue, 15 May 2012 12:18:27 +0000 http://lenski.com/?p=6925#comment-4499 OK! I'll see what happens with the intention. OK! I’ll see what happens with the intention.

]]> Comment on The agile conflict resolver: Going beyond the toolbox by Diane Gibbons http://lenski.com/blog/the-agile-conflict-resolver-going-beyond-the-toolbox/#comment-4498 Diane Gibbons Tue, 15 May 2012 10:52:12 +0000 http://lenski.com/?p=6884#comment-4498 Wonderful post Tammy! Of course, I love it when the connection is made between agility and life in general. I think that everything can become a tool for greater awareness, and agility is no exception. In peace.. Diane Wonderful post Tammy! Of course, I love it when the connection is made between agility and life in general. I think that everything can become a tool for greater awareness, and agility is no exception.

In peace.. Diane

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